† Mission Statement †
Saturday, January 22, 2011
Merci Jezi!
Merci Jezi for another family who said YES!
Merci Jezi for setting the lonely in families!
Merci Jezi, for one less orphan tonight!
Just...... Merci Jezi!
Join with us as we pray for and support this family in their journey.
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
12 Days & Counting
this post was taken from a blog friend and you never know who might see this through another friend of a friend. please pass it along, share it with everyone you know. you can tell from the date that it was posted....this sweet boy has 12 days and counting now. time is running out, but nothing is impossible with god!
december 20, 2010
just. twenty. days.
and then--he will never have the opportunity to be adopted again.
oh my heart. i cannot stand the thought.
look how sweet he is....

i cannot even imagine being in his situation. seeing countless "little kids" leave the orphanage with their mom and dad and wondering, wondering, wondering, if his turn will ever come.
sadly for this young man, time is about to run out. he has waited for such a long time on waiting child lists--but no one has ever said "yes" to him. can you imagine being passed over so many times?
absolutely heartbreaking for any young person.
according to the agency that has his file, apart from a history of hep b (just like our girls--very easy special need) he is healthy, smart, and a great thirteen year old kid.
goodness, i just know that his family is out there somewhere. i know someone will go. why? because i believe with all my heart that there is a family for every child who waits. they just have not found him yet.
unfortunately, there's a catch...
he absolutely must be adopted before his fourteenth birthday in february. that means that his family must already have a dossier in ch*na. they must be in the process of adopting another child from this country and are willing to add this boy to their adoption. or, their dossier is in country and they are waiting on a referral.
one of my favorite lines from the movie, "faith like potatoes" is when angus buchan says, "the condition for a miracle is difficulty, however the condition for a great miracle is not difficulty, but impossibility."
god loves to show his glory through seemingly impossible situations.
it's time to stand a trust the father for a great miracle for this sweet guy. as time ticks by and things become more and more impossible, i ask myself again, "is anything impossible for the lord god almighty?"
i know the answer all too well. so do many of you.
nothing is impossible! nothing at all. not even this.
please, friends, can you help us to spread the word about this young man? post him everywhere you possibly can in the hope that his mom and dad will find him soon--before it is too late. once he turns fourteen he will be considered unavailable for adoption. he will never know what it feels like to be loved and treasured by parents. he will remain in the orphanage until he is sixteen...and then...well, who knows? it is the sad reality of any orphan who ages out of the system. hopelessness.
twenty days...that's all we have to get the word out there on the internet. will you please help? will you pray with us for the great miracle that he so desperately needs this christmas? will you help to spread the word wherever you can?
i so appreciate your help. you guys totally rock.
let's give him the best christmas present ever...a family!
if anyone wants more details, reply or leave a comment to this post, or e-mail me at renealynch at yahoo.com and i can put you in touch with the ones you need to talk to regarding this sweet boy!
Monday, November 8, 2010
Visiting Orphans
We've had the chance to serve in missions work in Haiti in 2009 and oh what a blessing it was. Just when you think you are going to help and serve someone else (which you DO!!) the Lord surprises you and blesses you beyond measure. Some of you have read my posts before on our trip and you can certainly look through the archives and read them. But what I can tell you is this: "Once our eyes have been opened, we can't pretend not to know...." (Proverbs 24:12) Your life will be forever changed and your heart for the orphan will burst with a desire to better serve our Lord. You will learn exactly what it means by feeling able to “deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me." (Mark 8:34)
Please visit their site and enter to receive a chance to win. Click HERE to find out how. You can also check out MY CRAZY ADOPTION and enter the giveaway that's going on there to receive more chances to win! Good luck!!! I'm anxious to see who will be serving with visiting Orphans in 2011!!!
So....where will you decide to go? El Salvador, Costa Rica, Haiti, Ecuador, Honduras, China, Ghana, Uganda, Kenya, Ethiopia, Rwanda, India, Ukraine
See what Amanda (the girl in charge at VO!) has to say about WHY they are giving away this trip!

Sunday, November 7, 2010
Orphan Sunday
Bro. Daron - We're looking forward to a return visit and even more excited to be able to visit their church soon! |
Joy and I, Orphan Sunday 2010 |
Our biggest cheerleader! Jia! |
Choosing to See
Most folks in adoption circles (and many more beyond!) know of and love the Chapman Family. Read their story about their lives together, their adoptions of their three girls and their loss and the triumph that came from that loss in Mary Beth's book "Choosing to See".
You can also find more information about their orphan ministry and how you can help support orphans in China and around the world at their website SHOW HOPE. If you are in your adoption journey they also provide grants and funding for families so be sure and check out their site. It may be that the Chapman family is going to help your family adopt!
Say YES!
How does it feel to have no family? How does it feel to become part of one? See 6 lives change in two-and-a-half minutes....
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Soles 4 Souls
My girlfriends that co-founded Joint Heirs Adoption Ministry(JHAM) and I sat at our local shoe store on the main street in our little podunk town Saturday (in the pouring rain!) and collected over 650 pairs of shoes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AWESOME is the only word I can think of to describe our day.
We partnered with Soles4Souls who provided collection boxes and flyers to distribute for our 'cause'. They are awesome to work with! The Girl Scouts in your community can become involved to earn merit badges. (we only had one girl scout show up but it was encouraging and fun to remind her she will be the ONLY girl scout in our area with one of the S4S's badges! :) The local shoe store, Brown's Shoe Fit, is a participating business with S4S, and gave each person that donated shoes on Saturday a coupon for $20 off a new pair of shoes! Pretty awesome!
We got our schools involved and the kids at my son's school started collected two weeks prior to the drive. They donated two full boxes of shoes!
Then we also had the Fellowship of Christian Athletes (FCA) collect shoes at the middle school and high school in our local town (my kids go to a country school so the pics you see above is the entire 8th grade class my son is in! lol)
It was so much fun to work with the girls all day and we banded shoes together from 9 a.m. until 2 p.m. Yes, every single pair of those 650+ shoes had to be rubber banded together. But it was interesting to see just what kind of shoes we got!
Yes, shoes of all kinds!!! These had never been worn!!!! (I'm thinkin' that's a good thing!) lol We figured they might have been bowling shoes. It was hard to think of how many hundreds of dollars people spend on shoes...... that they never wear. We had so many people bring shoes that still had tags on them, new soles or were still in boxes. We as American's are so very spoiled (some are blessed....that's a better word huh?) and don't even know it. As we banded all those shoes together we thought of where they might end up. China, Africa, Haiti, Chile, even our own inner city hospitals in Kansas City. I wonder where they will walk next. Knowing my shoes have seen the sandy beaches of Hawaii and now they may walk on the rocky ground of Haiti. One day seeing the sun and having fun, the next day comforting and protecting the feet of a mother who walks miles to bring her child fresh water.
That's little Miss Jia (Joy's daughter from China that she brought home forever last summer), the kids were all a big help actually and it was fun to have them around to 'encourage people to stop and share their shoes with us!
Two of Melinda's cuties! Acel & Meah. Meah came home forever from China last year too! I can't tell you how great it feels to work with these girls and do what we do. Advocating for the orphan and the least of these. And seeing our kids get involved with us is even more of a blessing!
Joy's mom is always our little angel in disguise too and she was kind enough to buy us all lunch. Pizza in the trailer (you didn't expect us to sit in the rain all day did you? ;) Joy's hubby has a racing trailer that we were able to conduct our shoe drive out of.... nice and dry). Thanks for the Pizza Mellanie! But thanks even more for the shoes! :)
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
Won't You Help Us?
- Send Joint Council your successful Russian adoption video via email to alexa.m@jcics.org.
- Video should be a maximum of 3 minutes.
- A release must be sent to Joint Council or we cannot accept your video. For a copy of the release, click here.
- Joint Council will translate the video into Russian and post it on our YouTube Channel.
- Send Joint Council your successful Russian adoption story via email to alexa.m@jcics.org. Send us your stories through:
- Photos (please do not send more than 10)
- Essays (maximum 500 words)
- A release must be sent to Joint Council or we cannot accept your story and/or pictures. For a copy of the release, click here.
- Joint Council will then compile the stories and pictures, translate them into Russian and post them on our website and/or blog.
- Joint Council will post, forward and share your stories via Facebook, Twitter, and blogs. Joint Council will be updating our YouTube Channel and Facebook page as the stories get compiled and translated, please subscribe to us on YouTube, Twitter and Fan us on Facebook.
- You do the same by posting on your Facebook, Twitter, blog and website!
- Are you willing to speak to the media about your Russian adoption? If so, please email betheanswer@jcics.org with the following:
- Your name(s)
- City, State of residence
- Contact Phone Numbers
- Contact Email
- Short 4 sentence bio about your adoption
- Do you speak Russian?
- We are in need of individual volunteers who can help our staff translate the videos and text quickly. If you are interested in helping, email Joint Council at intern@jcics.org.
- Do you live in the Alexandria, VA area?
- Joint Council is in need of short term volunteers over the next two weeks, email rebeccah@jcics.org if you would like to volunteer.
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Monday, March 8, 2010
Widows & Orphans - WIPHAN

Wiphan was started just 3 years ago…and we’ve just had our 501 non-profit status for TWO years. It went from one friend of ours—to our family—to 3 more families…and we had a board! For awhile—it was just us + 450 orphans + 150 widows. We trusted the Lord to provide the thousands of dollars of month we would need to run–and He has always provided. Last year we started our sponsorship program to invite OTHER FAMILIES to join us! I would LOVE to see all TWENTY of our children who still don’t have sponsors sponsored by Friday!
OK—so how can you help?! We need voices! We need others who have hearts for orphans to speak with us! And if you have a blog—well, you have a voice and you probably have lots of readers!!! The MORE people we refer to the Wiphan site…the MORE people will find out about Wiphan and our sponsorship program!
Zambia isn’t really open to adoptions…so for these kids–the only hope is for them to be cared for in country. We have TWO schools and 450 kids—with MANY MORE who would LOVE to be in our program. BUT before we can grow–we need to find sponsors for the children on our list. Many of our children waiting for sponsors are “older children”. Maybe you don’t qualify for adopting an older child–but you could sponsor one!Maybe your budget really is too tight–but you could blog about them and be their voice!
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
† For His Glory

As some of you may know if you are keeping up with the situation in Haiti some of the children from the orphanages are being brought out of the country and united with their adoptive families in the U.S. This of course is being done with humanitarian waiver/parole for children who are already in the adoption process. All I know to say is, "Merci Jezi!" (Thank you Jesus! in Creole)
Those wanting to adopt from Haiti or who have had their heart changed by the disaster and now wish to adopt will of course not be this fortunate in the process. But there is always hope that laws and red tape can be changed for the future of Haiti's orphans.
Continue to pray for the country and it's people. This will be a situation that will not be remedied within a few weeks or even months. They need our continued support for a better future.
* UPDATE: Also just wanted to let everyone know that we have heard from our friends that Celissa (the girl posted below) has been found and is safe and alive! Another Merci Jezi!!!! We don't know all of her story yet, but are just thankful that she has been found.
Friday, January 15, 2010
† Support For Haiti's Orphans
I have met some of the workers and staff at Canaan and know that with donations provided Sister Gladys and Pastor Henri can be trusted to use donations in a necessary and honest manner. If you are interested in supporting the Orphanage at Canaan with us you may use the Chip-In box below or feel free to click through to the Canaan Orphanage support page and make your donation directly through their site.
We continue to pray God's blessings upon the people and children of Haiti. If you have questions, please feel free to contact one of us directly or leave a comment below. Thank you for your continued support of our mission to care for "the least of these".

† Searching...
I urge you to continue to pray and keep the victims in your thoughts as our lives continue to go on as regularly scheduled, they are displaced, burying loved ones (if they are fortunate enough to provide a burial--most victims will go into a mass grave), they search for food. I encourage you to fast for a day, one day and try to understand the urgency for their needs.
Please pray for our friend Celissa. She has yet to be found. Roberto and Alex are making another trip into Port today to search for her and others they are still waiting to hear of their safety. I'm not sure what school Celissa was teaching at but we have posted her photo and information to the CNN search site as well as Earthquake Haiti facebook group in hopes of finding information about her.

We have not heard from her since the earthquake.

We ♥ You!
If you'd like to read more about our trip to Haiti you can click HERE.
Thursday, January 14, 2010
† Prayers & Aid for Haiti
Have you ever gone somewhere and felt like you had been there before, or like it was a home away from home and you didn't want to leave? That's how we felt about Haiti this summer. After yesterday's earthquake we're left heartbroken today for the people of Haiti. Not just the ones we know, but the ones we don't know that are still God's people.
To most yesterday was just like any other typical day. Even myself. I got up, took my shower, did household chores, sat down to work at my computer and spent my day in a normal routine. I checked my e-mail around 4:30 and started discovering messages about earthquakes and Haiti. Huh? There's no earthquake in Haiti..... then I discovered the news. I don't turn my television on during the day and once I clicked into yahoo I saw the home page and the news releases. Instantly my heart sank.
My mind raced with all the faces of the people I met, those I didn't meet but passed on the street or drove by along the road. One can't begin to imagine the fear and devastation they must be facing. It's one thing to live in a world like we do where disaster may strike but there are plans in place and methods to follow to ensure we don't stay 'down' for long. We're America after all. Power gets restored, telephones work, there is more than one airport..... Imagine being in a country that has no regular current of electricity. You live on generators on a normal day and now your world has collapsed and there's not even a source to bring fuel to your country to run your generator (which believe me is the least of their worries!). No phone, no electricity, no roads left to get through.
We made new friends and found family in Haiti. Not just the other missionaries but the native people of Haiti. Roberto and Alex who spent every day with us from sunrise to bedtime. Marjorie who cared for us and fed us. Celissa, Claudia, Linda, Smerelda, Miko, Stanley, Mackline...... the list goes on and on. Where are these faces? Where are these loved ones?
* Chris made it home, but the 'countless' hours before his arrival he had spent in Port after the quake trying to help others. He was near a 3 story school full of girls that collapsed and was trying to pull them from the pile of rubble and debris. You can read his heartbreaking story on their blog that is linked below. My heart breaks for Chris as he had to leave some girls behind to find help and wasn't able to return til morning, only to find the girls had died in the night. Please keep this family in your prayers.


Roberto and Alex let us know last night that they were safe but they have family in Port that they cannot contact and don't know of their safety or whereabouts. They have become our family. When someone you love is hurting, you hurt. I may not know their extended family but I pray for them. My heart aches for them.
* Roberto and his father traveled to Port yesterday and were able to find his brothers and they are okay. Last we heard he was still searching for his mother. They have brought members of their family home with them to Montrouis.
Remember the wedding we just went to in December? Bobi and Marcus flew home to Haiti YESTERDAY! Only by the grace of God did they arrive, make their routine trip through the airport, out of Port and traveled to Canaan safely. They were far enough away from the point of the quake that they were safe and unharmed. Can you imagine just arriving home from a long vacation only to be thrown into disaster within hours. Can you imagine being their parents and not knowing how they are just hours after you've said good-bye at the airport? They had no way of contacting their parents. Luckily through the wonder of internet and before they lost power they were able to get a message to friends to notify their families. We praise God for their safe return home. Now they are caring for the dozens of children at the orphanage where they live.
* Bobi and Marcus have updated their BLOG from Canaan Orphanage on their account of the earthquake as they were driving home when it happened. There are also links if you are interested in supporting Canaan Orphanage and their relief efforts.

My 'sister' Diane still has regular contact with her children's biological mother in Haiti. Can you stop for a moment and imagine having your son turn to you and want to know if his Momma Cheri is okay? How do you tell your children you don't know for sure? How do you comfort them? (sorry Diane..... don't cry. Know that I love you and I'm still praying for Cheri and the kids. We know they'll be fine. xoxo)
* Diane received word that Cheri and the kids are fine. Roberto went out and found them to let Diane know of their safety. Many prayers have been answered. =) There are many more in need of prayer.
I can't tell you how much I want to be there today. I've yearned to go back for the past 6 months. But never so much as the last 24 hours. You can't live with someone for the period of time we did, sleep under the same roof, share all your meals together, pray together, worship together, work together, play together without loving together. A part of my family is hurting today. So please, when you know of someone in Haiti who is safe, don't stop your prayers there. Be grateful for their well being and praise God for that blessing. But remember there are still thousands of others who need your prayers still.




* Please also keep Britt & Kris and their family in your prayers also. You can read her blog and updates HERE.
If you'd like to read more about our trip to Haiti you can click HERE.